Thank you?

How do you break it gently to someone – without hurting their feelings – that what they are doing is actually very much welcome in your eyes. And that instead of you finding it hurtful or disrespectful, you are grateful for their actions and would love to thank them for it.

If only you could say that without them finding it hurtful that you actually really really like the state of things. Because you find them creepy, weird – and not in a good way – and not worthy of trust.

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